Hey all!  well it's been two years since I wrote something on this blog...I think it's time to bring it back to life! So much has happened within the last 2 years....i have grown so much. I will PROMISE to keep this blog updated because someone out there NEEDS to hear what I have to say. I have a lot to share with the world, so hopefully this blog will touch someone out there and make them either smile, laugh, or cry....or all three at the same time! lol Hopefully, you will follow me through my journey to my career as a fashion stylist and my relationships that blossom along the way. Every entry will start with a quote ad today's quote is: "Recognize the red flags" This one is for my ladies. Women....value yourself. Don't let any man tell you he is "too busy" or " Don't have enough time" to call you, spend time with you or for you to receive a simple ass text from him. Cheating, disrespecting, not communicating, being selfish, insecure and being immature are grounds for breaking up. You are beautiful...you are worthy...you are smart ( i'm starting to should a little like Abaline from the "The Help" but you know what I mean....) don't let NO MAN'S immaturity and lies get in the way of your self esteem and your dreams. A man should compliment you and ADD value, love and substance to your life, not take away from it. Sometimes love can blind us, pull the wool right over our eyes, but you have to listen to that inner voice, that voice that tells you " there is something not quite right here...danger!...danger!...danger!...." That voice is rarely wrong, God put intuition there for a reason. Use it before it's too late. Don't let him take up anymore of your time. Your time is valuable and precious. Don't let the WRONG guy get in the way of you finding the RIGHT guy.  *side note* if you meet a guy that does NOT have a good relationship with his mother RUNNNNN!!!!! **** I know..i know....you miss him...he was good to you( in the beginning) he's fine...he's successful....yea,yea,yea, but does he TREAT you like you should be treated. That's the key. Say no to games. Say no to disrespect. Say no insecurity. You know how you should be treated....expect nothing less.